First-time sex is always special for every couple as it is a new beginning for two-person as a couple and by proper protection and awareness, you can save yourself from unwanted pregnancy.
First-time sex is one of the basic bodily processes of reproduction. Every living thing here on this planet is manifested to reproduce. But in the millennial world getting pregnant is not that essential.
The choice IS Yours
So making out for the first time can make you pregnant?, yes it can and it cannot.
Losing virginity after first-time sex not necessarily means you will get pregnant. Pregnancy is a procedure that naturally happens. After sex When the eggs of women and induced sperm of men meet in the female body, then the magic happens. The proximity of such divine meet depends upon the health of both partners, the ovulation time, the climax level, the sperm and egg quality of partners, the intimacy level, and the desire of both partners.
There is no thumb rule for conceive to happen while having sex, but there are precautions that can be taken to avoid pregnancy. Many use contraceptive measures to avoid pregnancy after having intercourse. On the other hand, many men suffer from sexual problems like Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, male infertility problems, and other sexual diseases that forbids couples from conceiving.
Though the percentage of people who want successful pregnancy from first-time sex, 90% of the couples’ major concern is to not get pregnant by the first night.
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First-Time Pregnancy Chances
Different couples have different expectations from the first night which is very normal to have. Some couples do it to show love and affection to their spouse as it is a major part of making a marriage filled with happiness. And people perform sexual intercourse to take their generation to the next level.
For two-persons are in a relationship or those who are going to start a new life as a married couple, first-time sex is always precious for every person. The first night is always filled with nervousness, shyness, and excitement as well, as both the partners will now be more connected to each other.
Every person enjoys the intimacy and moments with their partner because it is the only way to show your love and affection to each other.
Do First-Time Sex Causes Pregnancy?
The answer to this question that every single person thinks of before being physical is if first-time sex can cause pregnancy or not?
And the answer to this question is- Yes, a girl can become pregnant after the first time she has sex. Not only the first time but every time a girl has sex, she is at risk of getting pregnant with the normal pregnancy rates. Even if a guy ejaculates near or outside the vagina and it pulls the sperms towards itself, a girl can achieve a successful pregnancy.
One Time Sex Can Cause Pregnancy at Young Age
A Female body makes eggs soon after the first menstruation cycle and the boy’s body has sperm from tender age itself. So the physical relevance for being pregnant can start as early as 9 years of age.
The exposure to the internet, unhealthy diets, and cultural change has made every naïve mind very curious about sexual activities. It is very much important for the youth of today’s era to have sex education at an early age so that they can understand sex as one of the basic phenomena of being a human being. They should not be carried away with hormonal bursts happening during teenage. It is important for the younger generation to be sensitive and responsible for sexual activity.
The increasing rape cases by Juvenile reflects the society which is not aware of sexual wellness. To stop such hideous crime, we need to cultivate awareness among youth and also streamline the physical lust with meditation, right eating habits, and exercises.
There are other segments of young adults who are becoming too casual about sex. Even that needs to be balanced with emotion and a sense of responsibility.
Until and unless you and your partner are physically infertile, any time you have unprotected physical intercourse increases the chances of pregnancy. Whether it is the first time or the hundredth time, the chances are the same. There are few couples that do not look into these risks and avoid precautions as they think that it is not possible to get pregnant after the first night. But afterward regrets not taking any safety measures with them.
Dr. Chirag Bhandari, Founder of IASH and a renowned andrologist of India says that porn addiction, smoking, and drug addiction are few primary concerns among young adults.
What causes pregnancy in a couple?
Pregnancy is a beautiful process for taking your family to another level. To become pregnant it is important to pre-ejaculate or ejaculates in the vagina. Having physical intercourse without using any latex or internal condom can transfer the sperm into the female reproductive part that causes pregnancy in the future.
Taking precautions not only avoid unwanted pregnancy but also protects from Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs).
How You Can Avoid Pregnancy After First-Time Sex?
Couples who are not looking for pregnancy can avoid it if they are aware of the options when it comes to birth control. There are several contraceptives in the markets that can help you avoid pregnancy. But the only reliable way is a condom.
Several ways to avoid pregnancy are:
The male condom is the best way of birth control that not only avoids unwanted pregnancy but also protects you from various Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs). It is proven that male condoms are more than 80% effective in preventing birth.
How to use a male condom
- Select the right size.
- Place the condom on the head of the male reproductive part. If it is not circumcised then remove the foreskin first.
- Unroll it down the penis and do not tear it.
- Leave some space at the tip of the condom.
- After sexual intercourse, remove the condom and dispose of it.
A female condom is another birth control method that a female uses to avoid unwanted motherhood. A female condom is worn inside the female reproductive part as it makes a barrier that stops the fluids and sperm semen from entering into the female body.
A soft silicone cup placed deep inside the vagina for protecting it from sperm semen is known as a cervical cap. The main job of this cap is to stop the semen from reaching the eggs.
When Can a Woman Not Get Pregnant
Age of a Female ∝ Infertility
The peak reproductive years of a female for getting pregnant for the first time is in her late teens and after the 20s. And by the time she reaches the 30s, the fertility (ability to get pregnant) starts decreasing. And this decrease in fertility prevents a female from getting a successful pregnancy. And by the time she reaches 45, there is such a drastic decline that it becomes very hard to get pregnant through natural ways.
Consult the Sexologist
Dr. Chirag and other expert doctors are making every possible effort to make people understand the need of sexual health, and that’s why we at IASH, Jaipur provides a youtube chat show named as “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” to answer various unanswered questions about sexual health and to help people overcome their sexual issues.
Under the guidance of professional psychologists and sex doctors, we offer offline and online counseling sessions for people to solve their sexual health issues and dysfunctions so that they can live a healthy and happy married life with their spouse.
We know that not all sexual issues can be treated with surgeries and medication but also with counseling and therapies. Under the surveillance of Dr. Chirag Bhandari and Jaipur’s best therapist, we offer special therapies for treating sexual illness and problems, including a couple of therapies.
If you are also having doubts or want to ask for any sex-related issue, you can call us to get a consultation over the tiniest issue with professional sex doctors. We listen to your problem and provide you the best solution for it to make your life better both sexually and physically.
Some Popular First Sex Questions
How do I have my first sex?
If you are talking about intercourse, then it is done by inserting the male reproductive part into the female ones. But for doing that you need a partner who wants to do the same activity without any hesitation with you.
If you are having sex for the first time with your partner, then they’re the best thing is to talk to your partner about their expectations and thoughts. You do not have to imagine anything; you can ask them what they want and how. After that, both the partners must get sexually aroused both mentally and physically as it is vital for making the love bond. Physical arousal is necessary for sex as it makes the penis hard and the vagina to get wet, it creates sensations in all the body parts that excites both the partners. Physical arousal can be done through various actions like kissing, touching, cuddling, and embracing each other before having sex.
What do you mean by First-time sex?
Every single person defines sex in different definitions and experiences, but the experts define it as intercourse between two people who happened to like each other.
But if we do for a detail definition, then it can be said that –
First Sex is any action that two people perform to get physically aroused or evoked to satisfy their sensual feelings, the feelings that make you get erotically charged for any particular person. And according to this definition, it can be said that any acts like masturbation, chats that involve sharing of erotic experiences, including oral and manual (by hands), including intercourse, can be referred to as first sex when done the first time.
How does it feel to have sex?
Sex is a thing that makes every person feels different that actually depends on what kind of intercourse they had and the extent of arousal they get from sex with their partners. Sex makes people feel physically aroused and gives them extreme pleasure and sensations flood in their bodies.
But on the other hand, for some couples, sex can be frightening and painful with a bad experience. Sometimes sex can be painful, especially when the partners are not physically aroused. Many couples have sex even before they are not ready and without any excitement, which leads to unsatisfied sex. Because of that, it is necessary to have basic information on how to have sex and compatibility for getting a pleasurable time.
Why does first-time sex hurt?
The answer to this question varies and depends on who asks – the male partner (the one whose anus is inserted into) or the female partner (whose vagina is inserting).
When it comes to the male partner, the main reason it hurts to have sex is insufficient lubrication. It is advised to use lubrication before having anal sex. If you do not have enough lubrication, then it might result in friction and pain.
But for the female partner is the insufficient arousal that causes pain. The female body reacts to the arousal as the blood flows to the genitals. This arousal brings the changes of the genital touch to make the insertion pleasurable and satisfying.
Sex guide for the first time Sex
There are various things that you need to know and prepare yourself before the first time you lose your virginity. The points mentioned below will help you to overcome the performance pressure and stress as well:
- It is very important to not excite your expectations before having sex as it creates unnecessary pressure in your mind, which further results in dissatisfaction.
- Making a good bong with your partner is always useful and effective. You can also share your thoughts and concerns with your partner to make them understand you more.
- Sex is a skill, and it gets better with time. So even if your first time doesn’t go as expected, then there is no need to worry about it.
- Spending time on foreplay always relaxes your mind and releases stress. Before going for vaginal sex, you can spend some time on foreplay for better performance.
- Sex is a fascinating thing, and that’s why it is advised to go slow if it is your first time.
Take Away from this Blog…
Regardless of any shape, size, and gender, the first time is always special and can make love between the couple deeper and intensified. But it also comes with a set of expectations from both sides. That is why it is advised to prepare yourself for the first time to make it memorable for a lifetime. Here are some tips that will help you prepare yourself:
- You do not have to pressurize yourself by the performance pressure and expectations of your partner. It is obvious to have a lack of confidence and nervousness on your first time, but do not let it ruin things with your partner.
- The second most important thing is not to compare yourself with other couples or people as it only results in bigger expectations.
- Sex is a very awkward thing, which can sometimes be fun and sometimes stressful. If it is your first time, then you need to relax and enjoy it.
- If you are not looking for the pregnancy, then make sure to carry a condom with you.