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  • First Time Sex Complete Guide to Make You Fearless

    First-time sex is a very special thing in a couple’s life, which is full of excitement and nervousness as well. It is the time through which you can make new bonding with your partner, and that’s why you must enjoy the intimate moment with your spouse. There is no normal way or thing to one-size-fits-all age, relationship, or situation in which to experience sex for the first time. No matter how old you are or what the circumstances are, having sex for the first time can feel like a huge deal. Everyone’s experiences are different.

    Even if your first time didn’t go as expected by you, there is no need to worry about it as it doesn’t impact your health and body.

    First Time Experience

    First Time Experience

    Different people have different first-time sex stories. There are different experiences that a couple goes through while making intimate relationships for the first time. Being there is a lot more than just being physical. It is the primary contact that carries significance throughout the life journey.

    “For some couples, the start is like a bumpy ride, while for some, it’s a road to nirvana.”

    When it happened!!!!

    “There was a couple who shared their first time when they were so nervous that the guy lost his erection too early. Even after trying more than time, they failed to attain satisfying sexual intercourse. On the other hand, a couple from Udaipur shared that on their first night, the female partner started bleeding, which made her so stressed that she didn’t sleep all night. And there was another young couple from Chandigarh, who shared that their first night was excellent and satisfying”.

    What happens when you make physical contact for the first time in sex?

    First-time sex is exceptional, especially if it is after your marriage and everyone wants this time to be perfect for them as well as their partner. You must enjoy the intimate moment to the fullest and not worry about your performance. It is time to make new bonding with your partner and make the night memorable. But it is also essential to know that your body undergoes various changes after the first night, including hormonal changes.

    What Actually happens when you make physical contact for first time

    Despite the sound effects, there are some people who get adverse effects after their first sexual intercourse. Suppose a couple has performance anxiety or stress. In that case, it may lead to a bad physical time, and sometimes, because of this pressure, the male partner gets premature ejaculation, which ruins everything. There are also various cases in which the female partner may bleed after physical intercourse.

    Though a couple faces various difficulties during their first time, there is no need to worry about it.

    We are here to solve all your bedroom problems. At IASH, India, we provide treatment for all sexual issues, including premature ejaculation and Delayed Ejaculation. Under the guidance of Dr. Chirag Bhandari, IASH has cultivated sexual wellness and resolved private male problems to make their sexual life active.

    Sex guide for first-time Sex

    Follow these first-time sex tips to have a better experience:

    • Choose the right time
    • Accept embarrassment with a smile
    • Don’t experiment
    • Talk
    • Don’t hesitate to give tips
    • Be patient
    • Don’t pretend
    • Control your speed
    • Forget about your complexes
    • Don’t forget about the consequences
    • Lubrication 
    • Consent 

    So what to expect from your first honeymoon?

    So what to expect from your first honeymoon!
    • Enjoy the intimate moments
    • Make new bonding with a partner
    • Even expect stimulated Hormone levels

    Don’t Panic

    But sometimes you can also see the negative side of this. The adverse symptoms of first time sexual contact can be

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    Tips on using condoms

    In spite of the importance of condoms in reducing the risk of unwanted pregnancy and performance-transmitted infections, many people are not taught how to use them correctly. Here are some tips for the safe, effective use of male condoms.

    1. Use a condom during every performance act. A new condom should be applied for every instance of penile-vaginal intercourse, oral performance, and anal performance.
    2. Inspect the condom package before opening it. Condoms have a shelf life and can deteriorate over time. It is necessary to check all the details about it on the packaging.
    3. Look at the condom before using it and avoid puncturing it. Do not use sharp objects to open the package. Make sure the condom does not have any holes or tears. Any holes and tears might result in pregnancy later on.
    4. Put the condom on correctly. Do not unroll the condom immediately after opening the package. Instead, place the condom at the tip of the penis (leaving space to collect semen) and slowly unroll it all the way to the base. Squeeze any remaining air out of the tip.
    5. Leave space at the tip. When a man ejaculates, his semen needs space to collect.
    6. Use a lubricant. A lubricant reduces friction, decreasing the risk of condom breakage.
    7. Hold the rim of the condom when withdrawing the penis. This can minimize the risk of leakage.

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    Is sex painful the first time?

    Yes, several couples experience pain for the first time. Some women also encounter bleeding as well, which generally occurs because of the breaking of the hymen during sexual intercourse.

    Painful sex is shared as it can affect both male and female partners. You or your partner can experience pain due to various things like infection, erectile dysfunction, Retrograde Ejaculation causes or any psychological issue as well.

    Can a Girl Get Pregnant the First Time She Has Sex?

    Can a Girl Get Pregnant the First Time She Has Sex?

    Yes, there are chances that a girl gets pregnant after having sex for the first time. Each and every time a girl is having vaginal sex, she is at risk of getting pregnant if the male pattern is not using the protection. Pregnancy includes mixing sperm with the eggs in the female body, and even if a guy ejaculates near the girl’s reproductive part and sperm goes into her body, it can give rise to pregnancy.

    First Time Pregnancy

    The pregnancy success ratio might vary from body to body, but the chances of pregnancy when a female tries for the first time is 20%. After you reach a certain age as after 30, the percentage starts decreasing.
    Is Infertility related to First Time Sex?

    No, as we have discussed earlier, there can be many issues with an incomplete closure. You should not panic after the first time sex. It’s better to talk to someone or take a consultation to help you out.

    Infertility is different…..

    Infertility is different…..

    The thing that prevents a female from attaining successful pregnancy is known as infertility. There are various reasons for infertility in females like blocked fallopian tubes, low egg quality, or some psychological issues.
    It is also essential to know that females and males contribute to infertility which results in unsuccessful pregnancy. Various reasons can be seen in men like low sperm quality, count, and performance pressure that give rise to infertility.

    Dr. Chirag Bhandari the best sexologist in Jaipur also treats all types of male infertility issues so that they can attain a successful pregnancy in no time. We at IASH, determine and analyze the root cause of the problems that cause pregnancy failures and then offer a customized treatment keeping in your medical history and conditions.

    Take Away

    Regardless of any shape, size, and gender, the first time is always special and can make love between the couple deeper and intensified. But it also comes with a set of expectations from both sides. That is why it is advised to prepare yourself for the first time to make it memorable for a lifetime. Here are some tips that will help you prepare yourself:

    • You do not have to pressurize yourself by the performance pressure and expectations of your partner. It is obvious to have a lack of confidence and nervousness your first time, but do not let it ruin things with your partner.
    • The second most important thing is not to compare yourself with other couples or people as it only results in bigger expectations.
    • Sex is a very awkward thing, which can sometimes be fun and sometimes stressful. If it is your first time, then you need to relax and enjoy it.
    • If you are not looking for a pregnancy, then make sure to carry a condom with you.
    FAQs - Dr. Chirag Bhandari

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Q1. Who is Sexologist Doctor?

    A1. A sexologist is a medical professional who specializes in the field of sexual health. I am Dr. Chirag Bhandari, a sexologist, and I have dedicated my career to diagnosing and treating various sexual health issues.

    Q2. How to identify a Best Sexologist?

    A2. To identify a top sexologist, consider their credentials, experience, specialization, patient reviews, and your personal comfort. I have extensive experience in treating sexual health issues and am dedicated to providing the best care possible.

    Q3. Why Choose Dr. Chirag Bhandari for the treatment of your Sexual Problems?

    A3. Choosing Dr. Chirag Bhandari means choosing a dedicated and experienced sexologist who is committed to addressing your sexual health concerns. My clinic provides personalized care and effective treatment options.

    Q4. What is the Consultation Fee at Dr. Chirag Bhandari's Clinic?

    A4. Consultation fees at my clinic may vary. Please contact my clinic directly for specific information about fees and payment options.

    Q5. What is the duration of time slot for a Consultation at Dr. Chirag Bhandari's Clinic?

    A5. The duration of a consultation can vary depending on the nature of your concerns. Initial consultations may take longer as we gather essential information about your condition.

    Q6. Do I pay every time I undergo a Consultation?

    A6. Consultation fees are typically charged for each visit. However, we may offer package deals or discounts for multiple consultations. Please inquire at the clinic for more details.

    Q7. Do I need to Book an Appointment on the Scheduler of Website for an Online Consultation?

    A7. Yes, for online consultations, it is advisable to book an appointment through our clinic's website scheduler. This helps ensure you receive dedicated time for your consultation.

    Q8. I wish to proceed with an Online Consultation, what are the Steps ahead?

    A8. To proceed with an online consultation, visit our clinic's website and use the appointment scheduling system to book a convenient time. You'll receive further instructions via email or phone.

    Q9. Can masturbation have a negative impact on my overall health?

    A9. Masturbation is generally considered a normal and healthy sexual activity. However, excessive or compulsive masturbation may lead to physical or psychological issues. It's essential to maintain a balanced approach to ensure it doesn't interfere with your well-being.

    Q10. Is Sexual Disorders common?

    A10. Yes, sexual disorders are relatively common, and they can affect people of all ages. It's essential to seek professional help if you're experiencing any sexual health concerns.

    Q11. What are the Sexual problems that you Providing the treatment in clinic?

    A11. I provide treatment for a wide range of sexual problems, including but not limited to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, sexually transmitted infections, and more. Feel free to discuss your specific concerns during the consultation.

    Q12. How long does it take to get rid of premature ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction?

    A12. The duration of treatment for premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction varies depending on the individual's condition and the chosen treatment plan. It can take several weeks to several months to see improvements. We'll discuss this during your consultation.

    Q13. I am suffering with Penile Infections/ Balanitis/ Balanoposthitis/ STDs/ STIs/ Phimosis/ Paraphimosis.

    A13. Penile infections and related conditions require careful evaluation and treatment. I can help diagnose and provide appropriate treatment options based on your specific condition during a consultation.

    Q14. I am suffering with Sexual Dysfunction, what do I expect in my consultation?

    A14. In a sexual dysfunction consultation, you can expect a thorough assessment of your medical history, a physical examination, and a discussion of your symptoms and concerns. We'll work together to create a personalized treatment plan.

    Q15. What is a Level 1 Consultation for patients suffering with Sexual Dysfunction?

    A15. The meaning of "Level 1" consultations can vary. At my clinic, a Level 1 consultation may involve an initial assessment and diagnosis of your sexual dysfunction. Specific details will be provided during your visit.

    Q16. What is a Level 2 Consultation for patients suffering with Sexual Dysfunction?

    A16. A Level 2 consultation may involve a more in-depth assessment, additional testing, or a review of your progress. This level is determined based on your specific needs and the nature of your condition.

    Q17. I have already had so many bad and failed experiences with previous Clinics/ Doctors in my City/ Country, how do I trust Dr. Chirag Bhandari?

    A17. I understand your concerns. Trust is essential. I am dedicated to providing the best care possible, and I encourage you to read patient reviews and testimonials to gain confidence in my expertise. My goal is to help you achieve the best results.

    Q18. What are all the payment options available at Dr. Chirag Bhandari's Clinic?

    A18. We accept various payment options, including cash, credit/debit cards, and health insurance in some cases. Please inquire at the clinic for specific details about payment methods.

    Q19. Is the Consultation Fee/ Online Assessment Fee/ Treatment Fee Refundable or Transferable?

    A19. The refund and transfer policies for consultation fees, online assessments, and treatment fees can vary. Please discuss these policies with our clinic staff to understand your options.

    Q20. Can I get an approximate idea of the cost of the treatment?

    A20. The cost of treatment can vary widely depending on the specific condition and the treatment plan. We'll discuss treatment costs during your consultation, and our team will provide you with an estimate based on your individual needs.